gettin' prep schooled.

After I stopped freaking out about all the mold we found in our bathroom, and after the subfloor and studs dried out for the first time in 5... 10... 25 years (?) it was time to start prepping for our new shower.

Side story:  When we originally knew we would be replacing our shower, I wanted to go with a shower kit - three walls and a shower pan.  Ehren wanted to do tile.  Normally it would be me wanting to do the fancy, more work, looks prettier project - but not this time.  After what we found with our tiled shower, I was scared it would happen again and wanted to be on the safe side.  Ehren, on the other hand, does not worry about many things in life, so he pushed hard for the tile shower.  And then I gave in... for the first time ever. 

We knew we wanted one knob to adjust the temperature instead of two knobs, partly because it makes it easier to adjust the temperature but also because there is a much bigger selection of single-knobbed shower head combos.  And I don't know if people were a lot shorter in the 70s, but a shower head at 6' with a 6'1" husband doesn't work out too well.  We decided we wanted to raise the shower head to 7'.  While we want to do this project on our own, we decided to call in a plumber to make these changes.  I'd rather spend a little more money to get it done right instead of worrying every time we turn on the shower.  Remember these beautiful knobs and shower head?

Facebook is a great way to find recommendations for services you need.  One time, I put up a Facebook status asking for good hairdressers because I was looking for a new one.  I had multiple people recommend one, and I've been using her ever since.  I decided to do the same thing with plumbers and it just so happened that the husband of a friend is a plumber.  Usually, you can't get a plumber to come out to your house for less than $200-$300.  He said he would charge us $150 to make two knobs into one and raise the shower head a foot if we provided the new fixture.  Pretty reasonable! His partner came out and after about 1 1/2 hours, it was done! 

Out with the old, in with the new.

Before we could start building the shower and applying the backerboard, we had a lot of prep-work to do - prep the floor, the drain, the niches, and the mystery pipe we found when we tore the old shower out.  We were sure we were going to be doing marble tile in our shower and I said, "I'm not going to have a marble shower and then have a shower caddy hanging over the shower head".  So we hopped online and found these niches.

They are designed to be screwed into the studs, are waterproof, and tile can be adhered to them just like backerboard.  We figured we would stack them on top of each other - one for me, one for Ehren and the little one for my razor.  But then after we gutted the shower, we noticed there was a random, PVC pipe standing in our way.  Who are you?  What is your purpose?  Get out of our way!

We didn't want to put the niches between the left or right studs because it would look awkward and it would be hard to tile in the corners like that.  So then we decided to re-route the PVC pipe.  We remembered from insulating our attic that it went through the attic space and out through the roof.  We decided it was a sewer exhaust pipe.  We started the re-routing process by buying PVC pipe, elbow joints, and sealer.  Ehren drilled through the studs so the new piping could run through it.

We marked where we wanted the niches and then cut the PVC pipe go around it.  After using this purple primer, everything was sealed and ready to go.  And don't worry, it didn't stink when the pipe was opened up.  Here's how it looked afterwards.

Then it was time to install the niches into the studs.  We figured out where we wanted to niches to sit and then began to frame around them so we would have something sturdy to drill into on all sides.  There are pre-drilled holes around the perimeter of the niches. 

Then we drilled the niches into the studs.  We used backer board screws that we would later use to with the backer board. 

My studley stud drilling into studs.

Then, voila!  Everything is secure and ready to go.  Even though I knew it would look nothing like the final product, I had to see how our shampoo, conditioner, etc. would look on the niches.  Are you getting my vision? 

                         

Next thing on the list was to install the shower pan.  We got our shower pan at Lowe's with free in-store pick-up.  We discovered that the shower pan would not fit over the drain as the drain in the floor was sticking up too high.  No big deal, we just bought some more 1/2" sub flooring and raise the shower floor slightly.  We knew we would eventually be applying backer board + thin set + tile to the bathroom floor so we could afford to raise the shower floor a little bit.  We cut it to fit perfectly in the shower stall and screwed it in.  

Now you can see that the drain does not stick up above the sub flooring, and therefore, the shower base will fit over the drain.

Now to install the first thing that actually looks like part of a shower - the shower base!  In order to install it securely and to make sure it's level, you apply a layer of thin-set or mortar.  This prevents the shower pan from shifting or settling while you're in the shower which could mess up the tile-shower pan junction later on. 

After the thin set is down, time to caulk around the the drain where the shower pan will rest.  Use a 100% silicone caulk.  We have an old sock in the drain in these pictures to prevent stuff from falling down the drain.

Next, place the shower pan down, it should be a snug fit.

Then, make sure it's level.  Since you are putting the base on thin set, you can push it down into the mortar to make it level.  This is the most important step!  If the shower pan is level, then the first row of tiles, and all the other rows of tiles after it, will be level.

BOOM!  Level.

Then, caulk the crap out of it.  The inside of the drain, the rubber gasket, on top of the rubber gasket.  Smear it around to make sure there are no gaps. 

We left the shower pan alone for 24 hours so the thin-set could fully dry and so we didn't make our level shower pan crooked.  It was really hard to not step on it for 24 hours.

Like with most projects, sometimes prepping is the worst part (like with painting a room, refinishing a piece of furniture, or staining a deck).  But obviously with a shower, the prep part is the most important part.  Tile is just the accessory.  To re-cap, here's "before" and "progress". 

It still looks ugly but it's coming along!  Here's how our massive to-do list is coming along:

1. Rip out tile
2. Remove old shower pan
3. Remove and clean up mold
4. Convert two shower knobs (hot and cold) to one
5. Raise shower head from six feet high to seven
6. Re-route PVC piping to allow room for shower niches
7. Raise subfloor with new plywood so new shower pan will fit over drain
8. Install shower pan
9. Install and seal drain
10. Install shower niches to studs
11. Install backerboard
12. Caulk between shower pan and backerboard junction
13. Caulk and seal around shower niches
14. Learn how to tile
15. Start tiling
16. Freak out
17. Ask yourselves, "why are we doing this?!"
18. Begin divorce papers
19. Tile for hours and hours and days on end
20. Wonder why and how people do this for a living
21. Shred divorce papers because now we know what we're doing and love each other again
22. Seal tile
23. Grout tile
24. Seal grout 
25. Install shower door
26. Caulk corners and seams
27. Install shower head and knob
28. Shower for the first time since April
29. Shower again later that day... just because
30. Remove vanity
31. Remove toilet
32. Remove light, light switches and mirror
33. Rip out linoleum
34. Rip out drywall and trim around door and window
35. Move light switch and electrical outlet because they are in the way of the pocket door
36. Install pocket door
37. Drywall
38. Paint (fun!)
39. Apply backerboard to subfloor
40. Tile floor (with less freaking out because we are pros now)
41. Grout and seal
42. Install toilet
43. Assemble and install vanity
44. Assemble and install medicine cabinet
45. Update frameless mirror
46. Install vanity light
47. Put trim and baseboards back
48. Crown molding?
49. Buy fun, new accessories
50. Bathroom dance party

bathroom: to-do and to-buy.

I am the queen of to-do lists.  Sometimes I make to-do lists and the first thing on it is "wake up".  I just love checking things off lists, it's so rewarding.  I decided I would make a giant list of everything that needs to be done in our tiny bathroom.  We will literally be replacing every single thing in our bathroom except the blinds.  There is so much to do in our 40 square foot peasant master bathroom, so here it goes.  Some things have already been crossed out, if you remember from here.

1. Rip out tile
2. Remove old shower pan
3. Remove and clean up mold
4. Convert two shower knobs (hot and cold) to one
5. Raise shower head from six feet high to seven
6. Re-route PVC piping to allow room for shower niches
7. Raise subfloor with new plywood so new shower pan will fit over drain
8. Install shower pan
9. Install and seal drain
10. Install shower niches to studs
11. Install backerboard
12. Caulk between shower pan and backerboard junction
13. Caulk and seal around shower niches
14. Learn how to tile
15. Start tiling
16. Freak out
17. Ask yourselves, "why are we doing this?!"
18. Begin divorce papers
19. Tile for hours and hours and days on end
20. Wonder why and how people do this for a living
21. Shred divorce papers because now we know what we're doing and love each other again
22. Seal tile
23. Grout tile
24. Seal grout 
25. Install shower door
26. Caulk corners and seams
27. Install shower head and knob
28. Shower for the first time since April
29. Shower again later that day... just because
30. Remove vanity
31. Remove toilet
32. Remove light, light switches and mirror
33. Rip out linoleum
34. Rip out drywall and trim around door and window
35. Move light switch and electrical outlet because they are in the way of the pocket door
36. Install pocket door
37. Drywall
38. Paint (fun!)
39. Apply backerboard to subfloor
40. Tile floor (with less freaking out because we are pros now)
41. Grout and seal
42. Install toilet
43. Assemble and install vanity
44. Assemble and install medicine cabinet
45. Update frameless mirror
46. Install vanity light
47. Put trim and baseboards back
48. Crown molding?
49. Buy fun, new accessories
50. Bathroom dance party

Just a tiny little list, right?  Now for my vision.  This was honestly the easiest part.  It may take me 20 minutes to order something off a menu at a restaurant, but when it comes to home improvement and design, I know exactly what I want. 

SHOWER

• Tile:  My contemporary version of "neutral" is grey.  (I consider taupe/beige to be the neutral version for traditional style).  I love the look of Carrara marble like this along with the accent tile. The unique grey veins in the marble are subtle but beautiful.  I like the 3"x6" size.  And maybe put the accent mosaic tile inside the niches?

Hampton Carrara on the left; Key Largo mosaic on the right.  Both from The Tile Shop

• Shower fixtures:  I want to have the same finishes throughout the bathroom so everything is cohesive.  I want to go with chrome because I feel like it's less trendy than oil-rubbed bronze or brushed nickel.  Plus I think there are less variations of chrome and therefore easier to match. Once again, I like contemporary and clean lines, so of course my eyes are drawn to this beauty found at Faucet Direct for half the price at other stores (and free shipping!).  I think it would look really good with the subway-sized tile.

• Shower door:  Once again, gotta go with the chrome.  There is not a lot of room in our bathroom so we have to go with sliding doors.  Our old shower doors had textured glass, we think we want clear glass because (get your mind out of the gutter) it will make the bathroom look larger and you will be able to see the beautiful tile better.  One like this Kohler shower door:

FLOOR

• Floor tile:  I want everything to be bright and light except for the floor.  I'm thinking about a dark charcoal grey tile.  We found these at The Tile Shop:

• But I also like this from Daltile

WALL COLOR:

• And continuing with the neutral-grey theme, I like these colors below.  From my experience painting my living room, it's better to go with a more brown-grey than a blue-grey.  It'll downright look baby blue in some lighting!

Benjamin Moore - Stonington Gray

Benjamin Moore - Coventry Gray

• I figured these colors would go well with our bedroom color below

Benjamin Moore - Trout Gray

LIGHTING:

• The vanity lighting will be where I have a little bling.  Everything else will be sleek, contemporary, and with clean lines.  There is not enough room to have lights on either side of the mirror (which is best for applying make-up) so we have to go with lighting above the mirror.  I was thinking something like these from Lamps Plus.

• Or maybe something less blingy like this:

VANITY/MEDICINE CABINET:

• Vanity:  When we were at Ikea last January, I fell in love with their bathroom cabinets and accessories.  They are sleek, cheaper than most vanities, and focus on saving space - which we need in our 40 square foot bathroom!  I was thinking either one of these below.  They have 2 large drawers that go all the way back to the wall:

• They also have organizers that can fit in the drawers.  I love containers about as much as I do to-do lists

• Faucet:  Continuing with the chrome theme, I like these faucets:

• Medicine cabinet:  Gotta have storage in our small bathroom, and definitely have to replace the old cabinet above the toilet.  Ikea has these cabinets that coordinate with the vanities I like.  The inside is mirrored as well.   

ACCESSORIES

• Towels:  We are still using the towels we got from our wedding over 3 years ago, but we may move those to the guest bathroom and get new ones.  I'm sure Ehren loves this idea!

West Elm. 

Crate & Barrel.

West Elm. 

• Bath mats:  We currently have black ones but they are pretty worn out.  Maybe rugs like these?

West Elm. 

Crate & Barrel.

• Other accessories:  Decorate with stuff like this from West Elm?

Not everything will be grey, black, and white - I will be accessorizing with color.  Now if only everything would be done the next time I go up to our bathroom.  It's going to take a lot of work, time and weekends but it will all be worth it.  We will have a brand new bathroom, learn a lot of new skills, strengthen our relationship (I hope), and add value to our house.  Now to tackle that to-do list!

What do you think?  Anything you would add?  Do you think we're crazy to tackle this ourselves without any experience?  We sure do.